On relationships

>.O Now... I'm way the wrong person to ask about relationships with the opposite gender, in this case guys... I've never had a boyfriend, or even a second date...

But that doesn't stop me from talking about it. ^.^

Now, normally I wouldn't be talking about it even then. I like keeping the subject away from me with a ten foot pole... But I was talking to a friend of mine who's having some guy troubles and as I was talking to her, I struck upon an idea that I thought was cool.

Relationships take two people... You can have a good relationship with another person, without the other person.

Yes, be amazed at my wisdom. ^.~ It seems quite simple, but (at least for me) it took a while to learn... We all have that perfect guy/girl that we like a lot. He/she is perfect. They're cute, have a great personality, *insert perfect quality here*, etc. What's not to like?

You care for this person a great deal. So everything should work out great, right?

Right?

... maybe...

It takes two. No matter how much you care about/fawn over the other person. You can't make them care for you. You can make it easier, but you can't make them. Lol. Just like Genie said in Aladdin, "I cant' make people fall in love with you."

Plus you can't bring people back from the dead...
It's not a pretty picture.
I don't like doing it!!
^.~

So, that be my words of wisdom for today! ^.^